Thursday, May 10, 2018

The Rise and (Almost) Fall Of Mothers Day

The origins of Mother’s Day as celebrated in the United States date back to the 19th century. In the years before the Civil War, Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia helped start “Mothers’ Day Work Clubs” to teach local women how to properly care for their children.


These clubs later became a unifying force in a region of the country still divided over the Civil War. In 1868 Jarvis organized “Mothers’ Friendship Day,” at which mothers gathered with former Union and Confederate soldiers to promote reconciliation.

The official Mother’s Day holiday arose in the 1900s as a result of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, daughter of Ann Reeves Jarvis. Following her mother’s 1905 death, Anna Jarvis conceived of Mother’s Day as a way of honoring the sacrifices mothers made for their children.

After gaining financial backing from a Philadelphia department store owner named John Wanamaker, in May 1908 she organized the first official Mother’s Day celebration at a Methodist church in Grafton, West Virginia. That same day also saw thousands of people attend a Mother’s Day event at one of Wanamaker’s retail stores in Philadelphia.

Following the success of her first Mother’s Day, Jarvis—who remained unmarried and childless her whole life—resolved to see her holiday added to the national calendar. Arguing that American holidays were biased toward male achievements, she started a massive letter writing campaign to newspapers and prominent politicians urging the adoption of a special day honoring motherhood.

By 1912 many states, towns and churches had adopted Mother’s Day as an annual holiday, and Jarvis had established the Mother’s Day International Association to help promote her cause. Her persistence paid off in 1914 when President Woodrow Wilson signed a measure officially establishing the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day.

Anna Jarvis had originally conceived of Mother’s Day as a day of personal celebration between mothers and families. Her version of the day involved wearing a white carnation as a badge and visiting one’s mother or attending church services. But once Mother’s Day became a national holiday, it was not long before florists, card companies and other merchants capitalized on its popularity.

While Jarvis had initially worked with the floral industry to help raise Mother’s Day’s profile,
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by 1920 she had become disgusted with how the holiday had been commercialized. She outwardly denounced the transformation and urged people to stop buying Mother’s Day flowers, cards and candies.


Jarvis eventually resorted to an open campaign against Mother’s Day profiteers, speaking out against confectioners, florists and even charities. She also launched countless lawsuits against groups that had used the name “Mother’s Day,” eventually spending most of her personal wealth in legal fees. By the time of her death in 1948 Jarvis had disowned the holiday altogether, and even actively lobbied the government to see it removed from the American calendar.

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Source: History.com

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11 comments:

  1. Very interesting post, I didn't know that Mother Day started in the USA. In Europe we celebrate it too, some countries have the same date in the UK it's another day. Unfortunately I have no recipe of my grandmas sweet salad ! Google !

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    1. I don't think it actually originated in the US, however Ann Reeves was the one who made it popular in the US.
      Thanks for sharing!

      - Lisa

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  2. Very interesting.
    Thanks for sharing at https://image-in-ing.blogspot.com/2018/05/strange-sights.html

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  3. Didn't know the history of Mother's Day. Very interesting!

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    1. There is much more to it than this! This is just the history of it in the US!
      Thanks for stopping by!

      - Lisa

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  4. What a fascinating story behind Mother's Day!

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    1. It was rather cool, right?
      Thanks for stopping by.

      - Lisa

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  5. Interesting backstory on Jarvis that I hadn't heard before. I'm a native West Virginian, so I'm familiar with Jarvis. :)

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  6. Lisa,

    What a cool discovery on the origin of Mother's Day! I had no idea this is how the holiday got started. Sadly, holidays do become highly commercialized. Anna Jarvis should've been wise enough to just accept the ugly truth and celebrate Mother's Day the way she intended. That would've been a better use of her time and resources. Thanks for sharing!

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    1. It is so weird that none of us learned about this in school??!!

      Thanks for stopping by!

      - Lisa

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